Content NoteThis biblical story contains adult themes including manipulation, sexual politics, torture, and suicide. We recommend parents review this study for participants below age 17.
One day you decide to carry a heavy door with your bare hands as far as you can. How far do you think you could make it?
Judges 16 — The Brewery Ministries Paraphrase
Samson went down to Gaza to find a “woman of the night.” The people of Gaza found out he was there and surrounded the city gate, planning to ambush him in the morning. But Samson got up at midnight, ripped the city gates out of the ground — posts and all — and carried them up a hill like he was moving furniture to impress a bunch of sorority girls.
Later, Samson fell in love (or something?) with a woman named Delilah. The Philistine leaders came to her and said, “Find out what makes him so strong, and we’ll each give you a ridiculous amount of money.” So Delilah asked Samson, “Tell me the secret of your strength.” Samson made up a lie about how if she tied him up with seven brand new bow strings that had never been dried, he would become as weak as a normal guy. She tried the fake solution. It failed. But strangely, Samson still kept her around.
Samson carries the gates of Gaza
Delilah laid on the guilt: “You lied to me! Don’t mock me. Tell me the truth. How can I bind you so you can’t escape?” This happened enough times that Samson should have become suspicious. He made up a few more lies. Once he even made up a ridiculous story about how if she wove seven locks of his hair together and fastened them with a pin, his hands could be tied.
While he was sleeping, she tried each fake solution. She’d hide a bunch of men in the room ready to ambush him, tie him down, then yell “Samson! The Philistines are coming!” to see if the ropes would really hold him down. Each time, Samson easily broke free. And each time, the men hiding in the inner room had to silently re-evaluate their career choices.
Finally, Delilah pulled the “You don’t love me” card. It worked. She tormented him with her words every single day until he felt like dying. But Samson didn’t recognize her manipulation. He caved and told her everything: “Before I was born, an angel told my parents I was to take a vow to God. My hair is never to be cut. If it’s shaved off, I’ll lose my strength and become like any other man.”
Delilah knew this time was different. She called the Philistine leaders, got Samson to fall asleep with his head in her lap, and had a man shave his head. Then she shouted, “Samson, the Philistines are here!” Samson woke up thinking, “I’ll break free like always.” But he didn’t know that God had finally left him. The Philistines grabbed him, gouged out his eyes, dragged him to Gaza, chained him in prison, and gave him the most insulting job they could think of: grinding corn with a hand mill — a job their culture considered “women’s work.”(a)
But his hair began to grow back. Some time later, the Philistines held a huge celebration in the temple for their god Dagon. They praised Dagon, saying, “Our god has handed Samson, our enemy, over to us.” When the crowd was drunk and entertained, they called Samson out so they could mock him. Blind, broken, and humiliated, Samson was placed between the temple pillars.
He said to the servant guiding him, “Put me where I can feel the pillars that hold up the building.” Then Samson prayed, “Lord God, remember me. Strengthen me one more time so I can avenge my two eyes.” He pushed against the two central pillars and said, “Let me die with the Philistines.” The temple collapsed on the rulers and the crowd. Samson killed more Philistines in his death than he had during his entire life.
- It is unknown whether Delilah was a Philistine. Some scholars say yes, but the fact that she had to be bribed raises questions.
- Delilah betrayed Samson for 5,500 pieces of silver. For comparison, Judas betrayed Jesus for 30.(b)
Discussion Questions
Samson’s story is very “adult” — but in some places you have to read between the lines to see it.
The biblical text says Delilah “pressed him hard with her words day after day, and urged him, his soul was vexed to death” (Judges 16:16). Notice Samson saw her daily — it’s a clue. Some scholars suggest Delilah may have been withholding sexual favors since he kept returning day after day.(a) Delilah was weaponizing the relationship.
Samson had already broken his Nazirite vow in previous chapters — he likely drank at his own wedding feast, and he touched the dead bodies of animals and people. God didn’t remove his strength for those invisible violations. The hair was the one visible sign of his vow. Once that was cut, it was public and undeniable.
Samson’s final prayer — “Lord God, remember me” — may be significant. Some scholars believe this is Samson acknowledging that he had broken his vow, and that God returned his strength because Samson had genuinely re-evaluated and repented.(b)
The Bible teaches fasting as a spiritual discipline. It could be argued that self-discipline is a muscle that needs to be regularly exercised to become strong. Samson’s story shows what can happen when someone consistently chooses short-term reward over long-term wellbeing — eventually, they may lose the ability to choose differently.
The Book of Enoch (Chapter 8) describes a corrupt angel named Azazel who taught women the art of seduction — how to use appearance specifically to deceive men. Scholars believe the writer of Genesis 38 (the Tamar/Judah story) referenced Enoch intentionally. An ancient reader might have recognized the same “art of seduction” pattern in Delilah’s story and understood it as spiritually charged.*
Why It Matters
This story is helpful for someone who’s trying to figure out what God is like. Samson was a pretty messy individual — but God gave him every chance possible. He even stayed with Samson after Samson had broken his vow long before his hair was cut. It’s interesting that God didn’t take away Samson’s strength when Samson let Delilah cut seven locks of his hair. Samson’s story is proof that God is patient with us.
On an emotional level, Samson seems psychologically dependent on the dopamine high he’s experiencing with Delilah. It’s almost as if he’s developed an emotional addiction. This story serves as a powerful example of why practicing self-discipline matters. Self-discipline is a muscle — it needs to be exercised to become strong. This could be one of the reasons the Bible teaches fasting. Samson’s tragic story shows what can happen to a person who neglects it. He reached the point where he couldn’t say no even if he wanted to.
Finally, the big picture is key to understanding this story. God has been trying to set Israel up as a “lighthouse” that would draw other people back into His family. But Israel hasn’t been very good at it, and they’re oppressed by the Philistines — who’ve even trapped them in a technological stone age by outlawing blacksmiths in Israel. Even though Samson is a total mess, God saw an opportunity to use Samson’s bad choices to bring about something good: giving His people their freedom back and restoring their role as a lighthouse for others.
Notes to Yourself
I learned this about myself…
I learned this about God…
* Azazel taught women the art of seduction in Chapter 8 of The Book of Enoch. Although Enoch’s validity is debated, in Genesis 38 Tamar seduces Judah using language that contains links to Enoch — scholars think the writer of Genesis 38 wanted readers to recognize the seduction storyline from Enoch as context. For further reading, see Reversing Hermon by Michael S. Heiser.
(a) Judges 16. Faithlife Study Bible, edited by John D. Barry et al., Logos Bible Software, 2012.
(b) Fruchtenbaum, Arnold G. The Book of Judges and Ruth. Ariel Ministries, 2007. Ariel’s Bible Commentary.
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